FLAMES Game: Rules, Meaning & How to Play

What is the FLAMES Game?

FLAMES is a classic relationship prediction game that has been played in schoolyards around the world for generations. Each letter stands for a different type of relationship:

How to Play FLAMES

1. Write down both names

2. Cross out common letters between the names

3. Count the remaining (uncrossed) letters

4. Use that count to eliminate letters from FLAMES one by one

5. The last remaining letter is your result!

Example

**Name 1:** SARAH → S, A, R, A, H

**Name 2:** JAMES → J, A, M, E, S

Common letters: S, A (crossed out)

Remaining: R, A, H, J, M, E = **6 letters**

Count through FLAMES by 6: F(1), L(2), A(3), M(4), E(5), S(6) → Cross out S

Continue: F(1), L(2), A(3), M(4), E(5) → Cross out E

Continue until one letter remains!

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FAQ

Q: Is FLAMES accurate?

A: FLAMES is a fun party game, not a scientific predictor! Enjoy it for entertainment.

Q: Where did FLAMES originate?

A: The exact origin is unknown, but it's been played across many cultures for decades.